A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:He's always looking out the window. He read the paper, did his paperwork, chatted on the phone and would played games with friends, while stood at the window. He used to jump out of bed at the weekend to start washing up (in the sink in front of the window). He was laughing one evening because his friend got caught looking in while the girl was doing exercises in her lounge and she pulled the curtains shut - His friend is in his forties and my partner mid 30's. I am being completely honest and not exagerating,he spent 90% of his time at home in the window. I started to become disguisted and wonder what was going on. The girl did not draw the curtains to her flat and my boyfriend did not have a curtain in the kitchen. From the moment he got home from work to the moment he went to bed, he would stand in the window and when it got dark he had a crystal clear view. I cleaned, cooked for him and his friend seven days a week, walked and looked after his dog and did his laundry to pay my way and he started to get nasty and said that I was making an idiot out of him. We split up after 8months of that. After 3 weeks He called me and asked to meet up. We ended up getting back together. A few days later I found a new girls number on his phone. I asked him about it and he said someone else had used his phone. I have dumped boyfriends in the past for doing less to upset me, but I was in such a bad place I wasn't strong enough. Needless to say when we moved he stopped doing the washing up, because there's a brick wall in front of him which I guess is much less visually exciting. I just can't forget every time we have a row I think back to how he treated me and I think that he should not be trusted. If he gets caught lying he will completely deny it like he does this. I feel like this will always be at the back of my mind and I will just end up resenting him. Could I possibly have some opinions please.
View related questions:
split up Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! |
