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He has a girl friend. He flirts with me. Could there be a chance for us? He's two years older than me

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Question - (3 March 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 March 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid,

This guy and I have been friends for a few months, and we've already gotten close. He makes me laugh, and it's just so much fun being with him! But he's the kind of guy that would say flirty stuff, but you have to know that he's just joking around.

But sometimes he's convincing that he's actually telling the truth, so to me, it's kind of hard to tell the difference.

Sometimes he would look at me, and we both have the same group for an activity and he would make jokes like let's do this after school, and let's make a "fun" video and stuff like that.

But the problem is, he has a girlfriend and he's two years older then me. We're close like I told him what my last ex-boyfriend did to me and he got all mad and protective of me. My friends were shocked that he did, and said that it looked like he may like me. But I don't really know because we're good friends and I just don't know.

Does he maybe like me? Could we ever be together? My problem is he has a girlfriend and he's two years older then me. Is he flirtng with me/or like me, or is he just being friendly?

Sincerely,

Anxious and Confused

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A female reader, LustyLisa United States +, writes (3 March 2011):

Look at it like this Anxious and Confused, he has a girl friend who probubly isn't aware of his flirtatious nature with other females when she isn't around yet you are aware of her existance in his life.

What he's doing is direspectful to her ( his girlfriend ) and to you. If and when he breaks up with her, the next girl friend is going to be subjected to the same disrespect as the current girl friend. This guy is a want to be player, maybe a player already.

Flirtatious types are thrill seekers looking for their next fix. It's all a game to them. Do you want to be his next fix? What will you do when that thrill pales and he's looking for his next fix? He'll be flirting up his next fix behind your back just as he currently is with you. What he's doing with her will most certainly be repeated in his future relationships. If flirtations leeds him to you, what's to keep future flirtations with other women from leeding him away from you? How could you possibly want and trust such a person in your life?

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A female reader, xanthic United States +, writes (3 March 2011):

xanthic agony auntUntil he's single, leave him alone. It doesn't matter whether he likes you or not if he's already involved with someone else.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (3 March 2011):

CindyCares agony aunt He couldbe flirting, but.. what's the difference anyway. He stills has a girlfriend , and unless he dumps her-please do not get involved. "Flirting " does not mean anything- some people are just natural flirts, they flirt with everybody. Some people love getting attention- some give you attention to be nice and make you feel good. And some people, alas, would not mind to have a girl on the side, so they flirting is their way to throw their bait, and when you bite they are quick to go all innocent :" Hey you KNEW I had a girlfriend.. !".

All in all - rather than wasting time in decoding the hidden meanings, it's better to find yourself a gf-less guy...

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