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writes:Not exactly a problem, but simply out of curiosity: is kissing one's friends (as in french kissing) and fooling a little around ok, even when you have a partner?In my circle of friends it's pretty common that we kiss each other, a gesture that would translate as a hug for most people. I was quite lucky to have a BF that didn't mind it at all and often joined and played around with the other boys, and occasionally girls, in the circle with some innocent kissing, while I would do the same with the girls and, occasionally, guys.Sorry if anyone gets offend by this, my friend circle consists of very open people and this is very commonplace in the circle. (We're a group of alternate people, kind of the outsiders of society so it's not so common outside this group I believe. Which is why I really want to see people's reactions to this.)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2011): If your partner is from the same circle and has the same attitudes as you do, then I don't see how it would be a problem. But if your partner is more mainstream then this is disrespectful to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2011): Seeing as you asked what people thought outside your group I assume you are seeking honest reactions so here is mine.I'd say if it keeps going like this then orgies are next.Seriously going down a track in life like this doesn't exactly inspire integrity or good relationsips. It's pretty gross to me personally I find that it is not having enough respect for yourself. How on earth do you find this sort of thing at your age? Who started the idea - where did it come from, parents? A commune type of living situation?Anyway I wouldn't say it was open - rather lacking in focus and not actually pleasant in my view.
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reader, Jjang19  +, writes (3 March 2011):
If both partners are okay with it, that is fine for the short term. But that will not work in a long term relationship as eventually someone will want the other people out, or want more of the other people. Either way, if the 'mingling' continues it will not result in a stable relationship.
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