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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:HELLPP!Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years and last month we found out he has genital warts. I don't have them and now I'm paranoid he has cheated on me. He is the love of my life and I don't want to put him through me grilling him if he hasn't done anything wrong, yet I worry that I am wasting my time with a possible cheat. We are very loved up but don't want to be fooled by the 'rose tinted spectacles' and be naive not to think hes done something.Is it possible for him to get this disease after more than 3 years? Or has he been elsewhere?Please only sensible answers, this is my future.ThanksJ
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reader, janice201149  +, writes (5 July 2011):
 There lots risk factor to have genital warts and it maybe one of the reason like.
* Alcohol use
* Compromised immune system due to such conditions as HIV/AIDS, taking corticosteroids, organ transplant medications, or cancer and cancer treatment
* High-risk sexual behavior
* Multiple sexual partners
* Personal history of a sexually transmitted infection
* Pregnancy
* Presence of other sexually transmitted infections
* Sexual contact with someone who engages in high-risk sexual behavior or who has had a sexually transmitted infection
* Tobacco use
* Young age at first sexual intercourse.
I suggest to have an open communication with your boyfriend ask him but don't expect that he will be true to you. Just give it a try.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2011): It is entirely possible like herpes, you can suffer break outs years after you were first exposed to them. but saying that its possible doesn't mean he hasn't cheated you would have to think if you have any other suspiciouns appart from this but yes he could have contracted them years ago and just having an outbreak.
The wart virus will always be in his blood and could errupt at anytime. I would also get yourself checked out.
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reader, eddie85 +, writes (4 July 2011):
 Have you been to the doctor since discovering he has genital warts for an official test? If you've had unprotected sex, you are very likely to have contracted them by now since they are transmitted from skin to skin contact.
He could've had exposure to the warts from a previous partner. Only he can answer the fact whether or not he has cheated on you. Perhaps it is time to review his sexual history and take a look at the trust issues here. For you not to have gotten them by now, raises my suspicions that he acquired them recently.
I think it is time for you to talk to your doctor as well -- he should be able to give you more facts about what you are dealing with and what the likelihood of when he was exposed to this disease.
Good luck.
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