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writes:I am 25. She is 40. She was my teacher in 8th grade. I hadn't seen her since. I ran into her the other night at a club. I went up to her to tell her who I was and we laughed and exchanged small talk. She was pretty drunk. I asked her about her family and stuff and if she was still married. She told me her husband had died a couple of years ago. I said I was so sorry and hugged her. Then I don't know what came over me. I started kissing her. She pulled away at first, but then we continued to kiss again. It was incredible. I had the biggest crush on her in I was in school and she is still incredibly hot. I know it freaked her out. She kept insisting it was wrong because she was my teacher. But that was 12 years ago and now I am 25. I can't get her out of my head. I want to see her again. I called her today to see how she is doing. She said ok, but still finds it weird. Do I even have a chance with this? I can't get her out of my head.
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reader, hopeFUL_romantic_13  +, writes (4 July 2011):
Wow. I wish I could have a make out session with my former teacher but I'm 17 and he's married. I've been in love with him for almost 3 years. He's too good of a man though to cheat and I'd never want to hurt him by wrecking his home. You're lucky though. A lot of young people with teacher crushes will be jealous of you because most likely if they approached a teacher they really liked, they'd be turned down right away. Unfortunately she made it clear it's really awkward for her to consider dating a former student, and that's understandable. That sort of thing is frowned upon and is likely to not end well. If this teacher of yours really doesn't want a relationship, you'll have to move on. Seek for someone else who interests you. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
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reader, Philips  +, writes (4 July 2011):
 A crush is a crush,,, not to be confused with love, trust and commitment. Be careful not to mess her up, or even yourself in this crush.
Your question was: Do I even have a chance with this?
-If you really want to, yes. You will be able to convince her.
However the question is, do you really want to be with her. Once you get her, she will be out of your head and next to your side. How long will you let her be by your side? How long will you be commited to her?
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