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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hello I'm in LDR with my bf. We're living really far away and could just meet up like twice a year because of professional reasons. We chat, skype constantly everyday but I have a problem of trust. He told me yesterday that he's tired of me asking if he's cheating or not and he told me that has to stop before it ruins our relationship. I acknowledge my issues and told him that I need time to rebuild my trust for him and that asked if he could give me more time. I'm afraid he's going to break up with me although he said everything is alright at the moment but I have to becaful about the trust and confidance in him issues. How can I fix this ? I don't want to lose him. Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 July 2011):
 What is it that is making you have trust issues with him? Has he ever broke your trust before? If I am honest I don't see you getting any better and that is down to the fact that you may only get to see him twice a year, meaning that for the rest of the year you are unsure about where he is or what he is doing. I think this might be playing with your emotions and you are left feeling insecure. I don't know if this relationship can last as long distance is so much harder than any other relationship. Have you both made plans about the future and how long it will be before you are living in the same place as each other? These are things you need to think about and discuss.
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