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writes:So i spent this whole day with this guy,, we'll call him M. He is a year younger than me but a little taller than me,, he's emo and a moody sod. we spent a whole day together and found that we liked each other, he started flirting like mad,, saying i love you to each other and hugging and he even kissed me. now a couple of days ago i said something to him that he didn't like,, i said i'd seen someone else's penis a while ago,, he obvs didnt like this. he now won't talk to me how he did at all, now just i asked him what's up and we had a really long conversation about why he's not speaking to me... the just before he left i said i just want an explaination and he said, "i feel like it". i'm like what so you just don't feel like talking to me like that anymore and i ain't done anything wrong? and he's like yeah... but i really like him loads,, and want to get back to how we were, i even cried about him the other day. (if you answer this please don't say something like just give him time... please say something like what i've got to say or do,, i really want him back...)
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reader, judeywoodeyrocks +, writes (5 July 2011):
judeywoodeyrocks is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks GG,,
Right so this happened like saturday night and like obvs worried me on sunday,, then he didn't come into school yesterday or today for that matter; i know i really should forget about him,, && i know it isn't love; i didn't love him, i said it because he said to me which i knew he didn't mean in the first place, right yeah so at first i thought he was avoiding me but yeah he's actually ill, but today this girl came up to me and said i heard you and M are going out,, i'm not no where did you hear than from, and she said his mum but obvs she got the wrong end of the stick, but tbh i just want to see what he does when he comes face to face with me, i know he'll probs ignore me like but you know && (i can't message you,, it won't let me :S) so yeah my friend said to me to act like you don't like him at all anymore and then he'll come running back cus boys want what they can't have (she said it works all the time with her boyfriend who she's had on and off for 7 months) so i may try that. but yeah,, if you read my other problem questions like i still have feelings for that guy,, imma try to move on completely from both... hahaha! thanks anyway; i'll see what happens tonight and tomorrow.
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reader, judeywoodeyrocks +, writes (5 July 2011):
judeywoodeyrocks is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks GG,,
Right so this happened like saturday night and like obvs worried me on sunday,, then he didn't come into school yesterday or today for that matter; i know i really should forget about him,, && i know it isn't love; i didn't love him, i said it because he said to me which i knew he didn't mean in the first place, right yeah so at first i thought he was avoiding me but yeah he's actually ill, but today this girl came up to me and said i heard you and M are going out,, i'm not no where did you hear than from, and she said his mum but obvs she got the wrong end of the stick, but tbh i just want to see what he does when he comes face to face with me, i know he'll probs ignore me like but you know && (i can't message you,, it won't let me :S) so yeah my friend said to me to act like you don't like him at all anymore and then he'll come running back cus boys want what they can't have (she said it works all the time with her boyfriend who she's had on and off for 7 months) so i may try that. but yeah,, if you read my other problem questions like i still have feelings for that guy,, imma try to move on completely from both... hahaha! thanks anyway; i'll see what happens tonight and tomorrow.
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reader, judeywoodeyrocks +, writes (5 July 2011):
judeywoodeyrocks is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks GG,,
Right so this happened like saturday night and like obvs worried me on sunday,, then he didn't come into school yesterday or today for that matter; i know i really should forget about him,, && i know it isn't love; i didn't love him, i said it because he said to me which i knew he didn't mean in the first place, right yeah so at first i thought he was avoiding me but yeah he's actually ill, but today this girl came up to me and said i heard you and M are going out,, i'm not no where did you hear than from, and she said his mum but obvs she got the wrong end of the stick, but tbh i just want to see what he does when he comes face to face with me, i know he'll probs ignore me like but you know && (i can't message you,, it won't let me :S) so yeah my friend said to me to act like you don't like him at all anymore and then he'll come running back cus boys want what they can't have (she said it works all the time with her boyfriend who she's had on and off for 7 months) so i may try that. but yeah,, if you read my other problem questions like i still have feelings for that guy,, imma try to move on completely from both... hahaha! thanks anyway; i'll see what happens tonight and tomorrow.
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reader, GoGreen126  +, writes (5 July 2011):
Dude, you told him you loved him after one day? That's...not love.
Guys are often very territorial. It makes him uncomfortable that you have experience with other guys. He doesn't want to be worrying about how he compares to your prior partners.
This affects all guys differently, but it appears that it bothers your guy quite a lot. If all you had between you was a few good days, I'm sorry to report your probably done. You're promiscuous in his eyes, and that's apparently not okay.
I'm sorry. Your situation just sucks. Young promiscuity can have adverse effects, and this is one. I've been in your shoes. Feel free to message me for support?
I say to just move forward onto someone more accepting.
GG
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