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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Alright so there is this girl i had met at university who i really liked and coincidentally she lived in the room next to mine in residence so we got to know one another by the end of the year. So here is my problem, for most of the school year she had a boyfriend which was ok because i didn't realize i liked her until the latter half of the year, so about the end of March she mentioned that she and her boyfriend had broken up but from what i gathered she didn't seem too upset about it (i could be wrong though). Anyway once she told me that she had broken up with her boyfriend i really wanted to ask her out but i didn't for a number of reasons 1) we were close to final exams 2) i was worried that she only saw us as friends because we had walked to class together sometimes (just the two of us) and i would usually ask her if she wanted to join my roommate and i for dinner if i saw her sitting alone. So, now school is over and we are on summer vacation and i added her on facebook and we have been keeping in touch with each other and i have asked her how her summer has been but im worried that (by communicating on facebook and the times that we walked to class together and talked just the two of us) she has put me in the "friend zone" and how can i be sure because i really want to ask her out when school starts again in september (assuming she is still single) any help is greatly appreciated
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2011): The only way you can find out is if you ask. Don't go all summer wondering. Just ask and if she gives you the answer you weren't looking forward to, then just move on and hopefully you can still be friends.
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