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writes:So I'm having a really hard time getting over my ex after she dumped me, and its not helping that we're still friends. what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2011): I think all the comments below are right. CUT CONTACT. You have to really close one door before you open another. Tell her you cannot be friends with her and then start to meet and hangout with new people till you're over this. It will happen...just takes time AND alot of STRONG WILL! Good luck xx
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reader, sammy1986  +, writes (4 July 2011):
as hard as it may be i would tell her you canot be friends anymore that it is making it to hard to get over her still being friends it will be hard but you will get over it
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (4 July 2011):
 If it does not help that you are still friends- freeze the friendship for a while. Go no contact,if you have to see her at school so be it ,but other than that, don't hang out socially and dn't exchanges texts ,e-mails and calls.
Drastic but necessary if you want to get over her. You can't be "just friends " with someone you are still in love with.
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