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reader, Sir-T  +, writes (6 July 2011):
Sir-T is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the kind advice guys... Much appreciated
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2011): My answer is the same as it was before. Look elsewhere.
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reader, Sir-T +, writes (5 July 2011):
Sir-T is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your swift response guys and i completely agree with you. However, just the other day i told the elder sister to let me know whenever she was free so we could hang out and she agreed to...
I dont wanna get dissed but i feel she would want me... should i still leave it alone??
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reader, cmarieky  +, writes (4 July 2011):
There are more chics in town than the two sisters you're tryna get at. So why don't you look elsewhere for a lady. If it wasn't a bad idea u wouldn'tbe asking for advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2011): The best way to go about this is to go away completely. You had your bite at the apple. Trying again with another family member looks tacky and desperate, or worse - predatory.
If the older sister is immature and indiscreet then all the more reason to keep walking.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2011): firstly talk to her sister and tell her how you feel to her sister and ask her if she's ok with it and if she is tell her sister how you feel but say you won't do anything unless she feels the same and if she does feel the same ask her out and then talk to her mum and tell her how you feel to her daughter and check shes ok with it all
good luck and hope i helped
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (4 July 2011):
 Everyone has found himself in the situation where "the sister" or "the cousin" is better-looking, or better, in all senses, but I'm afraid you have run out of opportunities here. There are other women. You can go find another.
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reader, babygirllovej  +, writes (4 July 2011):
 Honestly I don't think it will work out. Where you already asked her 14 year old sister she probably isn't too interested. Her Mom will probably never accept you either.
I would move on and find another lady YOUR age. Be careful on who you ask out. At least get to know them a little bit.
Good Luck!
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