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male
age
36-40,
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writes:Hi, I met this gal at my work place last year but we never talked just normal greetings. About some weeks we got talking and somehow got close but nothing serious happen b/n us because, I'm the shy type and never had any serious girlfriend. So I find out she got BF she tell me cause of that couldn't express myself to her because she already in relationship and didn't want things or have them F**k up cos of me and was cause our friendship would be over.About 2wks ago being getting mixed feelings that being bringing me down she once told me she start having sleepless night not feeling well, cant eat well but cause of my inexperience took as normal stuff thought might be cos she might be over working or something. Last week I have sleepless night there was these nights I woke up really early and couldn't sleep again and funny thing was I could really feel her, I knew she was up and going through the same hell as me. The next day she tell me she not sleep I tell her, me too but I whispered, and I'm not sure if she heard me. Just this weekend she says her BF is coming to country, usually she goes to him so she comes back Sunday and says still couldn't sleep well. Later in the day b4 she go she give me facial expression that not cool and tell me she off to do her hair. Did she mean what she did or unintentional and what it mean?...Today as I write, I haven't seen or heard from her almost every morning she come to greet-talk to me and later comes in day or if she free. I am confused and lost, don't know want to do, I feel she's mad at me, probably hating me cos maybe I not tell her how I feel towards her. Should i have told her my feelings earlier on and dealt with outcome red or green light?? Should I try contact her or give today and wait and see what happen tomorrow if we become cool. Should I tell her my feelings and be free cos am ready to take in whatever the outcome then at least i know i tried. Pls help really disturbed and crushing down any contribution or advice highly accepted Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2011): ive had a similar experience recently and what you should do wait a day and if nothing then contact her text phone facebook whatever you can and just ask her if shes mad at you and that you need to talk to her and then tell her your true feelings but say you wouldn't put your friendship on the line if she doesn't feel the same
hope everything works out mate good luck
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