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30-35,
*atty Cross
writes:I'm honestly not complaining. I love the feeling of cuddling with my girlfriend on the couch. I'd just like to know why exactly she might like it so much.However, she seems to prefer to do that more than anything else, and though I've offered to take her out to someplace else, she insists she'd much rather "sit" with me.She also likes to put her head on my lap as she holds my hand.However, she won't do anything of the sort in public, and we've agreed not to tell anyone we know about us just yet. It's still early days in our relationship, so I guess I'm just trying to figure out what makes her tick and what she wants out of our relationship. Reply to this Question
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reader, Dorothy Dix +, writes (4 July 2011):
Hi there. Some people don't like to show affection in public, they consider it something to be done only in private. That's ok, nothing to be too concerned about.
Perhaps you could give her a little kiss on her cheek the next time you see her on first greeting her, and then when you go home.
Then over time, see if she tries to kiss you on the mouth.
She might not want to get too heavily involved until she gets to know you a bit better. That's a good idea anyway.
It's even possible that she might be a virgin.
If a few weeks go by and she shows no sign of wanting to go further than just cuddling, perhaps you could ask her if she is interested in you in that way.
It's not impolite to ask her that, because after all, you are wondering about it already.
At least then, you will have a clearer picture of where it might be leading.
You do have a right to know.
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