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*ylancook1996
writes:My girlfriend and I weve been with each other for about 7 months now were both in year 9. we have had a few break ups but we love each other! i wanted to ask a quite important question,my girlfriend has quite a lot of boy mates which i know a few of them fancy her she goes to a lot of parties wearin short dress's skirts and belly tops it worries me that one of her mates will try it on or even kiss her. i cheated on her once with one of her close friends which i regret badly, this isnt the question the other day she went to her bestfriend's birthday party, she was wearing a really short pink tight dress and heels she kept hugging a year 10 who was a really close friend of me and her.but when i came later on she was just constantly kept hugging boys she was a bit drunk but then we all went back to her friend's dad's place and she was just being a full on and she was doin handstands and when she did pencil handstands her dress completely slid down and you could see all her underwear'shes really worrying me she gets drunk quite a lot,im about 10 months older than her she is on of the youngest i our year and i am the oldest so i see myself being quite more mature than her i need help why is she being like this ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2011): I don't have much hope for this relationship to be honest. For two people who claim to love each other you sure don't show it. Between you dallying with someone else and her getting drunk and flaunting herself all over the place, I'd say you both ought to give yourselves some much needed alone time to reflect on what you really want in life.
For what it's worth the more attention she gets from other men, the less badly she may feel about your indiscretion. Her bruised ego is soothed knowing that if you don't want her others do. This is not an excuse, but perhaps a partial explanation. Either way, her behaviour is trashy and I would dump her in a heartbeat.
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (4 July 2011):
Hi there. Does she know that you were unfaithful?
If she does, it's possible that she's trying to make you jealous by the way she's acting. Maybe she is.
It's probably a good idea to talk to her, and tell her how it makes you feel uncomfortable when she does that.
Tell her also, that you are afraid that one of these other guys might try to take advantage of her. It could happen, especially when she's a bit drunk and doesn't have a clear mind at the time.
If you want to keep on seeing her, you do need to say something to her about it.
When you do, don't yell out to her to stop - and embarrass her - but instead take her aside after that, and quietly speak to her, and about how you feel. Right away from where others might hear you.
Good luck and take care.
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