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male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Im a high school student and ive been with my girlfriend for 4 mouths and im really in to her shes got a sexy body and loves me like me crazy and says she could see us lasting for a long time and says we should have sex soon (and were both vergins) there is almost nothing wrong in are relationship..besides that she doesnt like when i go out and get drunk which is almost never and its useally with just my friends that are guys and ocationally with some upper classman girls and guys but very rarely and ive never drank with my girlfriend before and when i say she should come out with us she says she doesnt think she would get away with it. the problem is she also drinks but not as much as i do and doesnt get drunk(at least thats what she says) but its also with her best friend who is a whore along with the girls that she drinks with and my girl goes out with them while there hooking up with random guys that are all alot older and i dont know the guys because they dont go to are school and i already had one time where she was flirting and dancing with these guys while she was drunk (which isnt a huge deal) but i got mad at her when she was apoligizing and she said i was over reacting and now i feel like she doesnt tell me when shes out drinking like i told her i would tell her cus she said i worry her. now i know shes not cheating but she just told me that when her friend gets back from vaction she was going to threw my girlfriend a surprise party where my girl said she was gonna drink and she didnt ask me to come and i just want to know what shes thinking so if you have any ideas that be really helpful
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 July 2011):
 Well sometimes even though we are in a relationship it is good to go out and socialise with friends without our other half. It is healthy for you both to be going out on your own and enjoying time with your friends. It just sounds like she goes out with her friends who are girls and its possible she doesn't want you to come out as well as it is all girls. Am sure it really is nothing to worry about. But I think the both of you should be trying to make more off an effort to go on nights out together and spend time with each other. As for her flirting with guys well as long as you trust her well this shouldn't be an issue. Trust is a huge part of a relationship and it will only work if you have faith in each other. You are both still young and should be spending time with friends and enjoying yourself as well as being with each other.
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