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writes:How do I ditch my boyfriend? We've been together 7 months, but he's recently started acting different and I think there is another girl but dont want to jump to conlcusions.He hasnt been acting like a boyfriend, he never has time for me, he's always out with other friends, he's either working or too hungover to see me and i dont want a relationship like this. Any advice on how to finish the relationship? Reply to this Question
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reader, ilanah tromans +, writes (4 July 2011):
 i think the best way to finish it is to tell him face to face, just tell him exactly how you feel and im sure he'll understand maybe even go on a break and see how that goes, good luck!
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (4 July 2011):
 does he call you?
does he text you?
does he come to see you?
or are you always the one calling, texting and setting plans?
if you are doing all the work then all you need to do is stop calling him... and when he finally calls you need to tell him it's not working out....
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reader, a_maldita  +, writes (4 July 2011):
 Yes you should meet up with him and tell him how you feel.
Not seeing him for long and making lots of reasons not to see you are signs that the relationship is falling apart or either he is cheating on you.
Tell it to his face that you don't like this kind of relationship and tell him what you want to have it work for both you.
If he agrees then give him another chance but if not then if he doesn't you are better off alone without him...
Goodluck!!!
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reader, theorb14 +, writes (4 July 2011):
 Just ask him outright if there is another girl. The only things he will do is either up his game and be a proper boyfriend or realise there is a trust issue and end the relationship. Either way, you will be better off. Good luck
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 July 2011):
 You just need to be straight with him. Meet up with him and tell him that you just don't think the relationship is working and you want to finish it. Just be honest with him and tell him that's the best thing you can do. Also do it to his face not over the phone. Good luck.
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reader, serenity80 +, writes (4 July 2011):
Meet up with him, and tell him that you want to break up. Tell him the reasons, be honest with him.
Be prepared that he may try and get you to change your mind.
So unless you are willing to give things another try, you should be firm and not let him.
It would also be best for both of you if there is some space when you break up. At least one of you is going to feel lonely, or upset, and will try and get back together. This can usually cause more issues. Good luck!
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