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writes:There is this guy who i like and we met up and hung out. But at the end of the night we kissed.. passionately! We met again and ended up kissing, we both know it wont go further than this. We just get caught up in the moment and we like kissing each other, it's just a bit of harmless fun... Least i thought so. Because now i'm thinking if we keep kissing every time we meet, he might think i'm up for doing more which i'm not! I just like being around him and it just happens that we kiss! Do you think he will start to think it will go further than kissing? And how can i try and stop this from happening when we are together? I mean even when we are with a group, he will still kiss me. And i don't know what to do!?!
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (4 July 2011):
 If it is just a kiss at the end of the night there is nothing wrong with that, just because you are happy kissing doesnt mean he should presume you will do more than that!
Dont stress about this, I'm sure he is a nice guy and wouldnt try and take it further. If he does start to go too far and it makes you uncomfortable - stop him and tell him. If his hands start to wander, then simply stop kissing him and say "look, I really like you but I am not comfortable going any further so I would really appreciate it if we could just stick to kissing for now". If you tell him how you feel, then he will respect that and behave I'm sure.
But for now, it seems harmless because all you have done is kiss - so try not to worry unless he does start to take things further. There is nothing wrong with a guy who likes a girl, wanting to kiss the girl! You should just be happy he likes you enough to want to kiss you lots and is happy to show you off in front of friends. Try and relax - it doesnt sound like anything bad is going to happen here. And even if it starts to go too far, you are sensible enough to stop him and tell him you dont want to. Simple as that!
I hope this helps and good luck!
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