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writes:hi everybody i met a man a few months ago.i really like him and i told him this in a text last week. I also told him i know he is not interested in me and he doesnt want to see me, just wanted to see what he would say.He replied with, 'i do, just busy that's all' He is always texting me but whenever in the past, twice. we have arranged for him to come to mine to see me. He only lives a minute away. But he hasn't turned up.I havent text him today as i really don't know what to do? I really like him and want to know if he likes me too. i have already asked him out right. He doesnt text me back i can't ask him face to face. he has been hurt and cheated on by everyone he had dated, but im not like that. i wouldnt cheat on him i don't know what to do. do you think he likes me? or am i just wasting my time with him thanks
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (4 July 2011):
 Sounds like he isnt interested I'm afraid. When a man likes a woman, he will chase her and make sure he texts & gets to see her.
He is not chasing you, so he is not interested unfortunately. I think it would be best to leave it now, if he wants you he will text but I wouldnt hold out any hope I'm afraid. Dont waste your time chasing a guy who wont even come to see you - if he has let you down a couple of times he is not making the effort so dont waste your time either.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (4 July 2011):
 Don't mind what he says, mind what he does. In a few months he has not made time for you, in fact he blew yo off twice, even living so close. He is not interested- or at least, not in the way you want him to be.
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (4 July 2011):
 When you asked if he likes you and got the response about being busy, well, that's your answer right there.......not only that, but if he lives so close, and twice failed to come see you when he had said he was going to, it makes it quite cleazr he's not interested.
It's disappointing when you like someone and want to get to know them better and they don't respond positively. We've all had that experience........all I can tell you is to put him out of your mind and be ready to meet other guys who WILL want to spend time with you.
Good luck!
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