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writes: One night out my best mate led on this girl and then got with her, she really liked him but she didn't know till after they got with each other that he was with someone. I know since i'm also friends with her i should of said, but he's my best mate and honestly i thought she knew! It wasn't my place to say anyways. I heard she was really angry and left the club when she found out. Then she didnt speak to me for a few weeks, but were fine and on great terms now. Thing is she hadn't seen my best mate since what happened, so we all expected her not talk to him and there to be awkwardness!But last night we were all out and they were both there. So him being his usual cocky self, decided to speak to her and she actually talked to him! They looked like friends, It was if she had forgotten what happened, none of it made sense to any us. I joked about them, and told me shes over it cause it happened ages ago. Do you think she is? Were all just really, really surprised she even talked to him! Why would she be nice to him, after he treated her like that, what does that say about her?! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2011): What can the poor girl do? If she ignores him or has a go at him it would be even more awkward and ruin the group dynamics.
So she's obviously trying to be civil to him so that everything can be smoothed over and she can move on. If she holds onto the grudge then it shows she fell for him harder than he did for her, so I suppose she is also trying to save face.
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