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writes:Hello All,I met a guy on a dating site, seemed very nice, genuine, went out a few times - its been a month now since we have been seeing each other on and off, but he always seems too busy to meet properly or spend a day together, he has already introduced me to his family, however he keeps having 'family get togethers' and endless bbq's..of which I am invited to but I would prefer to get to know him on our own not in the company of his family. He says he misses me when we dont see each other, so why wont he make time for us to be alone ? His sister who lives in NZ has come home for a couple of weeks and brought her friend with her (female), and she is spending time with my so called new boyfriend...not sure what is going off, he wont come out with me to meet my friends when he is invited and always makes an excuse not to come, yet I feel im making all the effort, he keeps telling me he misses me but when we can spend time together (other than the odd evening) he is always seeing his family..what's going on.... Reply to this Question
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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (4 July 2011):
 He may come from a really tight family.
When you DO spend time along, what do you normally do?
I think its great that he introduced you to his family, and at first I thought, he trusts them and he wants their opinion of YOU if he is wanting a serious relationship.
BUT, since he has not taken the time to meet YOUR family and have them get to know him....it seems more like he might be Codependant with his family and can not really function without them.
You might have a Mommas boy on your hands.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2011): Think it would be better not to build up on this guy too much. Hes not as keen as you are.
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