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26-29,
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writes:okay my boyfriend and i wanna have sex but everytime we get a chance someone ruinz it... im just getting confused i want him to make the first move but he keeps telling me tht if i wanna do it to "just pull his pants down"....... it makes me mad tht he doesnt wanna make the first move!! wat should i do bout this.. i mean usually the guys make the first move on me and he is totally different... he doesnt care bout making the first move bout anything else its just sex he wants me to make it... UGH..... plzz give me suggestions on how to deal with it.... btw i am a virgin and i have thought this through....
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (4 July 2011):
 No you haven't thought through it , otherwise you'd have remembered that you are ridicolously underage therefore you'd be breaking the law.
Anyway, if this is no concern to you, then what's the problem. If he only says the "pull my pants down " as a joke- wait for him to stop joking and start meaning business. If he does not ,maybe he is not as in a hurry as you are- respect his timing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2011): Wait to have sex until you're old enough to realize pulling a guy's pants down to get started isn't going to be a very great first experience. Then, find a different guy to do it with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionfirst off.. we have thought this through.. we always talk about it and he juss says that to be funny.. we have thought it through.. okay?
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (3 July 2011):
 You have not thought it through if you are picking a partner for your first sexual experience that thinks that first time should be yanking down his pants.
Trust me dear, you want someone who is going to SHARE in the moment with you, make you comfortable, be responsible, caring, and make you feel safe.
He is not grown up enough to be that kind of partner for you.
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