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writes:so what if im only 15...i have been dating this guy for over a year ALMOST 2 years. he is my third boyfriend. i love him so much. none of my other boyfriend were like him. he is original. he loves me. he proved it to me so many times. we're not like the other teens in love b/c we've known each other since we were 3. we've been like best friends for many years. we're the same age. he is one grade below me though, but that doesnt make a difference to us at all. unlike other couples, we have cery good benefits for example hes allowed to sleepover my house. even though my parents are strict to protect me we're always safe. we have had sex before...but we used protection. ever since the begining he told me he would NEVER force me and we would only do it when we thought we were ready. he is nice. ever since we first started dating ...we've only had maximum 3-5 fights.. weird huh?. he's sweet. we go out to eat and ALWAYS have a laugh WHEREVER we go. with money we always divide everything equally. sometimes he even pays for me just because we want to. sometimes with either of our parents we travel together. we always go out whether its to the movies, the fair, the mall, the park...anywhere but we're always together. I think we're like perfect for each other. he has had 3 other girlfriends i have had 2 other boyfriends but honestly i feel like he is the RIGHT one for me....please help....this might sound weird but because we love each other so much and we're original unlike other teens do you think we could ever get married one day?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (4 July 2011):
 more than likely NO but never say never
while I only lasted 2 1/2 years with my high school boyfriend (and folks thought we were going to get married) it did not work out...
my grandparents met in the orphanage at ages 10 and 12 they married in their late 20s and were married 67 years till grandpa died...
my parents met on a blind date when mom was 16 and dad was 19 and they married when mom was 19 and dad 21... they were married till mom died in his arms when she was 58.... (the only time I saw my dad cry was when my mom died)....
teenage relationships can work... most do not..
my best advice... do NOT worry about the future with your BF... just go day by day and enjoy it as much as you can!
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reader, sammy1986  +, writes (3 July 2011):
i wouldnt start thinking about marriage yet, you are way too young.you hear of loads of couples that have been together many years and get married just for the sake of it because it is familliar to each of you.i would wait at least another 10 years see what happens in that time. if you are still together then then yes start thinking of marriage then
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2011): Who knows! My parents were high school sweethearts. They've been together 25+ years! And love each other more than ever. The passion is definitely still there.But just see where time takes you.
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reader, xx-lilmiss-xx +, writes (3 July 2011):
 Now babe i really don't want to burst your bubble, i know exactly how you're feeling right now, he's your world right? I was in the exact same situation as you, met a guy at 14, was head over heels with him and wanted to marry him etc etc, we ended up being together for 2 years, given that he's the only person ive ever slept with, i still got pregnant and i now have a 4 month old little boy at just 16 (i was 15 when i got pregnant), and like you, i was using protection. Now we're not together anymore and trust me, dreams have shattered but all i can advise you to do is take your time. You're still young, get a good education behind you first so you dont become dependant on your boyfriend and can afford to keep yourself afloat. If you guys manage to stick it out then hell why not get married the both of you?If you make each other happy of course, but what i' trying to say is, dont expect too much too soon i did and now im a single mum at 16, i lost the bet, and all i can do is warn you. Hope it goes well x
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reader, doll-face +, writes (3 July 2011):
You're still young, and have your whole life ahead of you. take each day as it comes, and don't rush into things.
but one day, yes :)
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reader, Mark_25_ +, writes (3 July 2011):
 I think your the only person your age I've really actually believed about being in love. It's not even a problem your on here about. It made me quite happy just reading about your story, it's really sweet! I wouldn't think about the whole marriage thing at the moment, because as long as you keep being intelligent about everything, that shouldn't be for the very least 6 years. So, yeah, if it stays as perfect as it has been and the relationship keeps on working, yeah, in a few years it will lead to marriage. But don't think about it now, just enjoy it :)
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reader, ALEŠ  +, writes (3 July 2011):
Of course thats if you stay faithful until your in your 20s but your young too and only dating 2 years you may get bored of eachother,don't think of marraige right now consider that when your older and be happy right now the way ye are.
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