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writes:Your Open Question:Why would he say all of that? am so hurt:(? My ex boyfriend asked to be friends 6weeks ago cos he's moved on. But I said I couldn't cos I still love him.Last night. We spoke again and told me to move on and find someone better and be happy. Before that he asked me to the cinema but he changed his mind cos I said I don't even remember how he looks like anymore:( is good, we should keep it that way.He says he doesn't think seeing me will help cos it will bring back my feelings for him. I asked how much is he over me, he says what I don't know won't hurt me:(He says he wants me to stay focus and not hurt anymore:(Am so upset:( I can't stop crying:( why do I love him so much:(HUGS
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (3 July 2011):
 Your ex is wise and considerate. You are not ready for being just friends with him, and seeing him again would actually make you feel worse. In fact, if you manage to NOT stay in touch with him, you'll get over him much sooner.
It's just six weeks, it's normal you still feel lousy. Give yourself time and seek actively ways to distract yourself.
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (3 July 2011):
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He cares for you,but dont love you anymore, he just wants you to be happy and move on rather than hurt yourself anymore by thinking things will change. I think you should take his advice and move on, try to keep yourself busy, and stay away from him for a long while untill you are sure you are over him completely. You will find someone else one day, and realise that everything happens for a reason xx
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reader, MissTellAll  +, writes (3 July 2011):
 He is being brutally honest, which is both good and bad. Good because he isn't leading you on at all, bad because... well..."I can't stop crying:( why do I love him so much:("Yea. I would say to cut off contact with him until you're over it completely. He may want a friendship again, but you just aren't ready for that. If he's truly caring enough to want a friendship he'll understand and let you have time to heal.Go out. Be with other people. Forget his face. Forget his name. Have fun.Good luck.
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