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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:For a couple of months I've been talking to a boy who i get along with really well, we can talk for hours until very late. I really like him and he's even told me he likes me too but he's confusing and plus my best friend once liked him a few years ago. I don't want to hurt her because shes very important to me. We were together to days before he went on holiday just hanging out then he told me he really liked me but the day before he went on holiday he suddenly turnt very blunt and I wasn't sure what was going on. I hate not knowing where I stand but I think maybe I like him so much because he's hard to get and exciting. In the middle of his holiday he sent me a cute email but when he got back he waited a day until he spoke to me. When he did speak it was kind of awkward. Later that night we spoke again and he was drunk, he kept saying how much he liked me and couldnt wait to see me again but I wasn't sure whether he was just saying this because he was drunk. All i want to know is how he feels also his cousin who I know tells me how he always speaks about me and said he likes me and also his friends who I get along with have told me he's told them too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2011): Okay you need to be honest. the worst that could happen is he says no and then you can get closure and move on. First, chat to your mate you liked him about it ask if it would be okay if the guy liked you back .. to be in a relationship with him. Tell her she is most important and you don't want to hurt her. Then, if she says it's fine. Meet up with this guy and just be honest with him, it'll be a very awquard moment but believe me you'll feel sooo much better for doing it, whether he says yes or no. Then, take it from there! Good luck!! xx
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