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writes:Hi,my problm is relatd with my bf and my cousin.i am in a relationship with my bf frm last 6 yearz.He promisd my parents that he will marry me 4 sure.He married 2 me in a temple but I dn have d proof of our wedding.during dat time my cousin askd me for help in her studies.i along wid my bf helped hr bt dat b**ch startd sleeping wid ma bf...nw he dumped me for her n going 2 marry her.plz help me I want 2 move on as I am completely shatterd n heartbroken
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reader, cmarieky  +, writes (4 July 2011):
I'm very sorry for your hurt. Right now you need a distraction from him, it will allow u time to heal. I know you are heartbroken right now but in my eyes its a wonderful thing you found out he was a jerk. Better now while ur young and sexy versus in 30 years after a failed marriage and many kids and your looks not so irresistible. You didn't waste your good years on this jerk. I too just recently broke up and I'm moving forward by occupying my mind and time with other stuff. Do not take him back. Ever. But good luck with your future, I'm sure there're wonderful things ahead for u. Take care
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reader, krit +, writes (3 July 2011):
 OMG!! That's so cruel on his part. I think more than your cousion it's your Bfs mistake. He was commited to you and even promised marriage to you so he should have taken the responsibility of denying her advances.
After being 6 long yrs into a relationship with you he should shown aleast this much diginity of atleast NOT sleeping with your own cousion.
This could be worst nightmare of any girl if her bf sleeps with her own sister. It's disguesting and disrespectful to say the least. If he would had cared for you truely than he shoulnt had done this stupid mistake knowing the fact that it could tear you apart. Infact it is more of planned thing instead of one time mistake.
It's NOT love from him for her but lust. By the way is your cousion too visually apealing ?? Because men are more of visual creatures so they generally lose their head when such situation occurs. Sitll this is NO excuse of not controling his actions and knowing the difference between a fantacy and reality. she was a fantacy and you his reality. He's not worth of your attention anymore. Be a strong lady and move on.
I know its easier said than done but alteast put some effort in doing so.
Time heals even the deepest wounds. Learn from your mistakes and don't take him back. I'm sure this would make even more stronger person when you finally come out of it.
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