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writes:can someone tell me whats wrong with me?okay so thursday my boyfriend went to his friends house.and didnt text me for 5 hours i texted him but he didnt text me back. so i texted him again and he finally texted me back. then we texted for 1 hour and he seemed like he didnt really wanna listen to what i was saying. he stopped texting me and i texted him 2 more times and then he finally texted me back and said i really love you but i got to go i asked him why and he said that he was staying with his two friends and that they was just gonna mess around. i was like okay. so i got mad and i didnt wanna talk to him so when he would text me i wouldnt text back. well yesterday he didnt text me not one time. and today he told me that he went to two parties last night but the weird thing i had a dream last night that when he was with his friend he had sex with another girl. and it was like it was real i felt pain like my heart was broke and all day today i have felt like someone ripped my heart out. well today we was suppose to go to this place and watch fireworks. well he got off work at 6 he went to go get his friend and his friends girl friend and he hung out with them all day then they came to get me at like 9 something. we went to watch the fireworks but i didnt have fun i didnt want him to kiss me and i didnt even wanna go. but i did anyway. when the fireworks was over we left and they brung me home so we spent maybe 1 hour together. is he cheating? or why am i like this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2011): I truly believe that when someone (your bf) that was once very attentive begins to become standoffish, something is amiss.
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reader, elizabeth1986  +, writes (3 July 2011):
Hi,This would really bug me too. I hate that feeling, it's the worst.There is nothing wrong with being angry about this but you have to get to the bottom of why you feel like this.My opinion is that you should sit down and talk to him about it, not argue or shout, just ask him. it might be something really simple like he misses his friends, or it could be something else, or maybe he just doesn't realize that he makes you feel that way. Some people don't notice that they're behaviour annoys other people. try and keep it friendly though, just ask him nicely or he'll just go defensive and feel like you're having a go at him.try and forget about the dream, it's just a dream and you probably dreamed that because it's playing on your mind about him cheating, it doesnt mean that he has cheated.It's a horrible feeling and I've felt like that before too, with my ex I was right, he turned out to be horrible, but I've felt like it other times and it turned out it was PMS and i was over reacting at something really silly.When he's out with his friends too, try and see your friends and make your own plans so you're not always waiting for him because then he can just see you on his terms, not on both of your terms. No good will come from not talking to him and being angry at him. Talking rationally and calmly and asking him about it, is the best way to get to know what he's thinking.Hope it works out, you're young and have your whole life ahead of you, don't spend time worrying about a boy xxxxxxxxxx
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