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*luk
writes:Okay so there's this girl who i really like, she's my ex infact and her friends keep bugging me to ask her out but im unsure and also i do not know how/what to say, she asked me out when we dated and also she dumped me so im lost. How do I ask her out? thanks in advance.
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reader, sammy1986 +, writes (3 July 2011):
i wouldnt ask her out again you have been there before and it didnt work out whats to say it would work out again this time?
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reader, blueskyday  +, writes (3 July 2011):
there's a point to ex, in the past. leave it that way save your self another heart break, forget her. Her friends are being immature if she wanted to get back together SHE should talk to you NOT her friends.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (3 July 2011):
 Don't ask her - like they both said. Even if her friends say to do it. Let her ask you if she feels that way and then - It's up to you to decide if you want to risk going out with her again. Sticking your hand into the fire again after you have already been burnt is going to have to be your own decision, and you will only have yourself to blame if she dumps you a second time. This is called learning things the hard way.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (3 July 2011):
 No, don't ask her out. Ever.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (3 July 2011):
 I'm assuming she's the same age as you. It's true that when a girl's friends come to you, it's usually because the friend is wanting to.
However, your ex did the dumping. Tell her friends to tell HER to un-dump you. She ended the relationship. She can restore what she broke up.
If you're wanting her to be yours again, tell her friends to tell your ex that if she asks you out, you will say yes. But she has to be the one to un-dump you.
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