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writes:Hi cupid, There was a girl. she was my first girl. the first time we met, everything was fine and really good.she text and call me everyday and night and i also do. After some times, I got serious anger and told her to stop calling me. She asked me what's wrong? I told her to stop calling me. She called my name and ask me "do you know what your doing? are you ok?. I switch off my phone about one week. After one week, she called me again, I told her the same thing. Since then, no call, no text from her. We got separated about two to three years. One blessed, I calm myself down and think about my previous life with her. She was a good and sincere girl to be with. I called her one day to plead her, but she said it is over, we can only be friends, but not love. I even beg, beg, beg her, and told her that she's was my first girl. whenever i think of her, i feel something deep for her. Let her forget what happened, it was act of annoyance. I don't mean to hurt her, just act of annoyance. After that, everything was fine, but the problem was, she don't text or call as she use to do before. I told her about it. She said "If you break a glass and you trying to fix it back, when you fix it back. It would not be the same". When she said that,I feel like am crying and she notice that on phone, but she said sorry about it. I know it was my fault. I told her everything, but she find it difficult to believe. How do I get my missing rib back?
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reader, LizBetty +, writes (3 July 2011):
 This have happen to me,at first i love him,but when he say he was no longer interested,i move on. But later he came begging,but believe me i accepted him back as for the love it was no longer there as before. I think you should sit her down to ask her questions like is there any guy apart from me? If she say yes,then you have to quit the relationship cause she no longer have feelings for you.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (3 July 2011):
 i think your the girl feels like you pushed her away when you had her, then you wanted to pull her back on a piece of string so how does she know that you won't do the same again if she agrees to get back with you? you cannot blame her for not wanting to give you a change to reject her again.
have some empathy for other people - ask yourself how would YOU feel if a woman you really cared for abused you by throwing your affection back in your face.
accept that this girl will probably never want you back now and use this as a lesson in how NOT to treat someone in your future relationships
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (3 July 2011):
 You don't . Actions have consequences. Regardless of motivations. Of course you did not MEAN to hurt her, you'd have been a total jerk if you had done it on purpose ! But, you have shown her a side of yourself that, right or wrong, she feels she cannot deal with, and made this relationship "broken " for her.
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