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*abyjoe14
writes:We have been together for about 4 years. Were supposidly engaged,I love him to death, and and i wanted to marry him....but now im doubting this...hes immmature, lazy selffish and an asshole....he doesnt go anywhere with me maybe besides walmart, he hardly ever has sex anymore..and he's always always blaming me for shit thats not my fault....im unhapppy. He lives with me...and has a full time job pay bills...hes really a great guy deep down....its just im 18 and he older than me and i wannna get out and live my life..all i can do it work come home take care of him and sit for hours on end when hes playing video games..thats all he does from the moment he walks in the dooor to bedtime. i cant stand it anymore. im lving in bordom and misery. I need help...Also iv been talking to a guy....hes nice sand stuff. I wanna leave him im just scared to....he wouldnt reallly have a place to go...i dont knoww...help pleasee...im torn. :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2011): If he has a job, he can find a place to go. Don't stay in a relationship you are this unhappy in, you have your whole life ahead of you!! Maybe you could tell him you want to break up, and he has 2-3 weeks to find a new place? That should be plenty of time, and would also give him one last chance to straighten up before he loses you.
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reader, missy_musk  +, writes (3 July 2011):
 babe you should be out there living your life! not feeling like this. your not happy and i can feel your emotion just by reading this. darling why are you so scared to leave him? its hard to let go of someone you love so much but you must think, is love really worth living like this for the rest of your life? it sounds cruel but you are not his mother and it is not your responsability to be worrying about where he will live when he leaves. he is a grown man with a full time job and he will sort himself out. It might take some time and a lot of getting used to but if you do finally decide to make the choice of splitting up with him, you might find yourself a lot happier in the future and open to all kinds of wonderful oppotunities!
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