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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm a shy guy when it comes to dating. I've been seeing this girl sporadicaly along the past 4 months. The thing is that during our last 4 or 5 dates I haven't dared to kiss her although I already kissed her once a very ver long time ago. It seems the moment is never right or our dates. Conversations never lead to something more romantic or intimate. By the way, I'm not naturally romantic, and unfortunately I don't feel comfortable being romantic.The thing is I invited her to dinner last week. I chickened out and didn't even try to make a move. Now at this point I'm feeling she already got bored of me. I got the impression that she may have fallen out of interest but hasn't said anything explicit to me. If any of you would have any tips, PLEASE as to how to make a comback, I would deeply appreciate it!!! I don't want to appear needy to her, but I feel I need to kiss her to show her I am interested. I guess I'm not an alpha male kinda guy, so it is sad for me to think she got bored and that it might be too late.Lately I've been thinking to ask her out and tell her directly that I want to kiss her. But first, I'm afraid I won't find the courage to ask and second, I'm afraid that she might say NO. Please any advice!!! I'm desperate to regain her attention although I don't want to appear so. I might be just imagining she is not interested anymore but I rather be prepared for anything. Thank YOU!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2011): aww. thats sweet.. have you tried pulling her aside in a dark room and kissing her? that's what i think you should do.. you should pull her aside and give her the best kiss ever!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2011): ok you sound like me. Im shy and not an alpha male either but im trying to change that about myself. Theres no quick fix. You have to change your thinking and i know this aint easy. Basically think more positive. Think about what you can achieve by making a move or dont think at all if your like me and tend to overthink! If you dont do anything youll lose her so why not make a move? If she does reject you just move on to your next target. Its a hit and miss game.
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