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writes:I have been with my fiance for 3 years now, last night he came in from football and was really angry he then said that one of his friends has told him i slept with someone on holiday with my grandma i did no such thing i love my fiance so so much plus he knows that i was on my period on holiday and i was with my grandma 24/7. He is now saying after this weekend he wants me to move back in with my mum and have a break, i am so scared that i am losing him he is my everything i dont know what to do i feel so sick at the thought that i am losing him
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2011): Sounds like he may be using your supposed infidelity as an excuse to break things off. How were things between you before this revelation of his?
I know it's rough, but better you find out now than waste any more time on this jerk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2011): What a douche. Why do you think he's your everything? What has he done to deserve this? Because honestly, you should get up and leave a man who clearly doesn't trust his fiancee.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (22 July 2011):
 The relationship must have been on rocky grounds already for him to believe a "friend" of his. Do you know who this friend is, or why your boyfriend trusts that friend over you?
He's showing you where his loyalty lies, and it isn't with you. Maybe it is just as well then to leave? There must be other things going on in this relationship too, things you didn't mention. It'd take a lot, I think, for a man to turn his back on his girl and blindly trust what some friend is telling him.
What is the full story, what lead up to this point? Other things must have been happening to bring it this far.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2011): Do you really want to be with someone who puts a friend's word over your's? He should be trusting you, not his friend, unless you've given him genuine cause. I think you SHOULD have a break and YOU should be doing a lot of thinking about the relationship rather than him. Do you want to marry someone who behaves like this? I wouldn't, because if this is what he's like know, he'll probably be just as bad if not worse afterwards.
Seriously, take a step back and realise you have been deeply insulted by your fiance who is supposed to love and trust you and if you DO decide to stay engaged it should only be if he apologies profusely and proves his love - probably by kicking that so-called friend to the curb. If he wants to keep both you and his friend, then get shot of him.
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