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writes:To all guys out there:Can you give me tips on how I can keep my man interested with me? I know and feel that he is in love with me and he says it all the time. We are together now for a year and we are still very much in love with each other. However, the stories in this site makes me think relationships don't last so I am scared what the future might hold.Thanks in advance! Reply to this Question
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reader, ayeshaH  +, writes (23 July 2011):
don't worry if you both love each other then it will last. obviuosly every relationship has its ups and downs but as long as you both still love each other then you will work through all your problems.
although i find that sometimes surprising your man doesnt hurt.just doing simple things like dressing up for him in the bedroom and making him his favourite meal never fail to be appreciated.
off course he should be doing nice things for you too.
xx.
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reader, Odds  +, writes (22 July 2011):
 Think back to when you first started dating. Make up two lists. The first list will be all the things you did that he loved, which initially attracted him to you, and which seemed to really draw him in. The second list will be all the things he did that attracted you in the same way.
Don't worry about how long or accurate either list is. You can always add or take away any item on it later.
Memorize the first list. Never stop doing those things. Then memorize the second list. Never stop making him realize how much you appreciate when he does these things - either thank him outright, or just react by getting very happy, or hugging/kissing him, or however fits best in the moment.
Last thing: never make decisions when you're angry. Fighting happens, emotions run high, and that's normal, it's just the wrong time to decide on any course of action.
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (22 July 2011):
 If your relationship is already great, my advice is to stop looking for potential problems. This site has great advice, insight but you have to separate your problems from other people's problems. One bad thing from visiting this site too often is that you see your man as other problematic men and lump all men together. Your man wants you to see him as special, that he has risen above all others.
The answer to your question is actually very practical. His interest in you grows as you grow with him. Keep reminding him that having you in your life is better than being single. As long as you are happy with him there is no reason for him to leave. Also remember he is not responsible for all of your life's problems.
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