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anonymous
writes:I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 2 years now,but I've just realised that its a one way relationship in the sense that she is not committed,she gets angry/defensive when I confront her about her wrong doings.Now we are always in arguments and angry. At each other,is this a sign of the end of things? Reply to this Question
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reader, VSAddict  +, writes (22 July 2011):
 If she's not willing to put any effort into the relationship, then it's time you end things. Talk to her and ask her what she wants from this relationship and if she's willing to work on it. Things are going to stay the same unless you both talk about this, without any defensiveness. Ask her why she gets defensive and maybe she can work on herself and try not to be or you can avoid saying things that trigger her defensiveness. What's important is that you find out what she wants and if she's willing to change. Then you can talk about improving it. But don't give up without trying to make things better. Hope I helped.
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