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writes:I'm having a physical realtionship with my ex and when I ask him were do I stand with him he either avoid the question or just refuses to answer i have feelings for him but he refuses to tell me how he feels my question is what do I do now
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reader, Battista  +, writes (22 July 2011):
That's because he doesn't want to commit to anything but in this set-up is getting sex with no strings attached. The best thing you can do is stop sleeping with him and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2011): You called him your "ex," so the answer is simple: Move on! No relationship can be purely physical, especially for women. You are more than just physically involved. He apparently doesn't want to be involved. So dump him, sweetie! Let him get his rocks off elsewhere. You deserve more. In time you will get over him and find someone else who can, and who will actually want to, meet your needs emotionally, spiritually, intellectually, as well as physically. You are only hurting yourself the longer you prolong the agony. You won't avoid the inevitable. He's just not right for you. Move on, take care of yourself, and best of luck
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reader, Tom Obler +, writes (22 July 2011):
 Well he is using you for sex. He has no interest in anything more with you because he is your ex and now he just gets the sex without any committment or relationship hassle. I cannot see any future for you here with him apart from the physical stuff. It's no good giving him an ultimatum because he wont do the relationship thing anyway. He could do that now, but he avoids it because he doesn't want to do it.
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