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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ok so like 2 months ago I got in contact with an old friend haven't seen him in years.. When I saw him we talked for a bit then when I was leaving he asked me for my # so I gave it to him, later with in a week he calls me wants to hang out.. The last time we hung out that I remember we were little 13 year olds and we made out.. And this time when we hung out and it was twice that we hung out yes we made out the 2 times we met up.. Now its been 2 months since I saw him or talked to him.. I found him on fb I requested him.. He aprroved and sent me a msg why did I disapear why haven't I contacted him.. The reason I didn't txt him was because I was scared I've been single for 2 years,was in a 5 year relationship. I don't know how it feels to be on dates anymore.. I've known this guys for years but theres a time gap now.. But we've both changed a lot.. He's super hot.. And me I'm not the type most guys look at. I felt ashamed of myself for making out with him the 2 times we met up.. So I didn't want to contact him until he did, also I'm not the type to call guys I don't want them to think I'm desperate.. So when he asked why haven't I called or txt I just said I had my phone disconnected.. I didn't know what to say.. He asked me when r we gonna go out again.. I said whenever. Its been 2 weeks and he hasn't replied.. And I don't know what to do should I txt him.. I mean I do like the guy.. I did when I was younger...but things r different now we're older now and since being single and having a heart broken pretty badly I just don't trust guys easily don't take them seriously.. But this guy I want to get to know him again and go out but its hard for to call up a guy and ask to hang out. He's told me before when we went out the 2 times that he wants me to do the first moves because he's always the one doing it, he was the one to ask for my number the ont to call and ask to go out both times that it should be me.. How do I do it with out sounding desperate? Reply to this Question
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reader, luckycloud  +, writes (22 July 2011):
If he said that, why dont you just make the first move once?
try a text or 1 call.
nothing's wrong with that. :)
enjoy ur new thing :)
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