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anonymous
writes:Hello.So..I told this girl I like her and she said she likes me too. After 2 weeks we had this little argument about why I'm so cryptic and I told her it's because I don't know where we stand (if we're bf/gf or just friends or whatever). Instead her answer the question straight ahead,she was sarcastic and said "On earth :)". I,of course,got offended. I tried to talk seriously with her and she took it all as a joke. Anyway. So we didn't speak with each other for a week (we could only speak on facebook cause she was on vacation). Now she's back and she've facebook-blocked me (no blocked me but put me into a seperate group and but that group as "show offline"). I see her posting stuff on others walls,commenting pictures,updating her status,etc. Hers and my friends arranged a little trip on Monday (25 July) and I see this as an opportunity to speak with her about this. So my question is: Should I speak with her about it or not? Some specific things I can say? And when during the drop should I talk to her? Thank you in advance.
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx  +, writes (22 July 2011):
 Hey. Well basically if she's put you in a group on facebook so it shows that she's offline, she has deliberately done that so you cannot talk to her.Maybe she is just to immature to deal with a proper relotionship, if she was being sarcastic when you were trying to be deadly serious she can't be takeing this very seriously as if she liked you and wanted to be with you then surely she would listen to what you had to say and explain where you stand then.However us girls are strange creatures, i remember when a boy liked me and i really really liked him but you see when he told me and asked me out i felt under pressure and too embarassed to say yes even tho, the oppoturnity was right there. So i took it all as i joke and kinda avoided him, i simply done it because i wasnt mature enough to handle a relotionship maybe shes the same.If you do decide to speak to her about where you stand then it is a good idea to tell her on the trip also, try and do it when you two are alone you dont want to do it infront of your friends because that might make her feel more embarassed. Hope this helps x
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