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writes: Question for the guys, i've got a problem, put yourself in my shoes and tell me what you would do. I work at a gym and this girl is a regular member there, she is probably the most attractive girl who uses this gym. When i first saw her if i'm honest, i just couldn't look away from her because she's so beautiful! Thing is most the time she is on her own at the gym and when she is she seems hard to approach and untouchable! So i've never talked to her or let alone smiled at her! Only because i'm worried of rejection or her thinking i'm weird. But then, when i see her with her sister, she's always laughing and happy, so she does seem like a nice and fun girl.Basically, i'm thinking she'll probably be going off to university soon and don't want to wait another year to see her again. So i want to speak to her before because i want to know what she's like as a person and who knows we could end up dating!? (i know getting ahead of myself). But i don't know what to say to her and how without her thinking i'm trying it on or strange. Cause really, how would you go about approaching someone at the gym, especially when you are a worker?! So what would you do....
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reader, ayeshaH  +, writes (23 July 2011):
hi im a 21 year old lady so ill try to help you.
well if i was that girl, id probably have noticed you staring by now. girls always know when a guy notices them. so she most likely knows you are attracted to her. which if i was her i wouldnt mind and would find flattering.
to be honest i wouldnt mind if you approached me and just spoke to me.
from your point of view, be aware that this is your workplace and to make sure you remain professional.
but just go up to her and ask he if shes ok and needing any help with anything. and just make some small talk. if shes interested then she will get talking to you.
don't be nervous, we girl like when a guy gets talking and it doesn't happen often enough!
as for her seeming hard to approach. i guess when im somewhere alone i seem hard to approach too. because i seem grumpy and silent. but a lot of girls seem like this when they are alone. really we are friendlier than we look.
don't be nervous, just do it! im sure she will get talking.
hope this helps
xx.
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