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*njeh28
writes:i am in relationship in about 4 yrs and 5 months now,but my bf is different now,he is not like before i know i had made a mistake with him,becus last dec,2010 i had sex with a black man ,(but he know about it becus i met that person in internet then visited me here)so after that, he treated me slowly very diferent,he never tells me what its wrong,or what was he thinking wbout,every single day i always thinking that he was not realy want to happned to had sex with the other guy,he thinks that i dont love him,becus i am trying to find someone that give me a good future in life becus i think he knows he cant give me and even to help finacially ,but i appriciate he doing his best,and he work as forcourt attendant,and he thinks his salary isnt enough for me,(yes it is true)but i only wanted to with other if i have a bf that help me finacially (material things)honestly money but doesnt mean,he never mean to me..i love him so much but i dont know how to get back his feelings again with me..actually he want to break up he mentioned me many time,but i said i cant dont leave me,becus i cant live with out you,even sometimes he hurted me so much although i deserve it becus i know i had a mistake.well i realy need a opinion or an advice as wellmy question is..should i give up or should i keep on chasing?becus i dontk now how to get back wiht me with his real feelings with me ,becus i dont know if he just pretending doing it becus he wanted me to hurts,?or what please help me.
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reader, VSAddict  +, writes (22 July 2011):
 Well you can't expect for your relationship to be the same after what you did. Don't try to force him to trust you. He needs to heal and recover in his own time. He's still with you after what you did, so this isn't something to be complaining about. He's trying his best to make it work even though he's hurt, so let him learn to trust you in his own time and stop worrying.
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reader, blueskyday +, writes (22 July 2011):
few words but keep trying!! eventually he'll be able to trust you again , it takes time!
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