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writes:i have just started a sexual relationship with my new partner. we were discussing other realtionships in the past etc, he mentioned it had been a few years that hes been with someone after it took a while for him to ejaculate, in fact he didnt and we have had sex twice since i just didnt seem to be able to get the guy to cum why is this?? i thought when it had been so long they cum quick but this doesnt seem to be the case whats going wrong im wondering if its me?
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (23 July 2011):
 One possibility - just a suggestion - is that he has grown accustomed to masturbation due to the reported absence of a mutual sexual partner. Even a couple of years of masturbation (only or primarily) may alter sexual response, but the situation can certainly be reversed. It is unlikely that anyone who has endured a few years without a sexual partner for stimulation has not resorted to some degree of compensatory masturbation, in case you think otherwise.
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reader, lovedoctress  +, writes (22 July 2011):
 I have heard but I don't know if its true but I heard that when a man have strong feelings for you he either takes longer to cum or he doesn't cum. Maybe it can b a myth.
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reader, Tom Obler +, writes (22 July 2011):
 It's not you. He hasn't done this for a while so there is that psychological thought in his mind. The thought of releasing and relief. Don't worry and don't over think this one. Keep doing what you are doing and this will happen. Why not consider it a challenge? He is obviously having pleasure so just treat the relief side as the next steps. All ok.
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