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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Me and my friend went to meet her boyfriend and his friend in town. (it was the first time i've met his friend) We went to the pictures and my friend and her boyfriend was so cute together, cuddling and kissing.Anyway, i took his friends number and weve been talking everyday since. He said im his type and he really likes me and at first i didnt like him, but as weve been talking more everyday im starting to like him. Were meeting up again in a few weeks and he said it will be our first date, however ive never been on a date before and im not the type to flirt with people. Any advice on what to do and what not to do on the first date, and how to flirt with him. Thanks
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (23 July 2011):
 Don't fart, talk about private things, get too intimate too soon, talk about embarrassing things etc. Be on your best behaviour, be polite and friendly. Shave. Do your hair. Floss. Dress nicely. And enjoy yourself! Show him you are interested in getting know him, and let him speak as well. Some women are chatter boxes that never listen, just talk... be a bit of both.
I'll tell you some of the things guys have done on dates with me that was a complete turn off:
Only talked about himself, never asked me a single question or appeared interested in getting to know me.
Talked about how sorry his life was, how pitiful he was, how depressing it was etc.
Wanted to move in with me (on the first date!).
Was too drunk to notice I had arrived and was sitting next to him.
Didn't talk at all. Period.
Wanted to know my bra size.
Wanted to kiss and cuddle on first date without even knowing me.
Only talked about his car/work/other uninteresting topic.
Keeps staring at your cleavage when talking to you.
Texts constantly during the date (it's a date, you're supposed to spend time with your date, not the phone!).
Ah, what else what else... Try just to be nice, and avoid the things I listed above. Oh, and if he does any of what I listed above: avoid!
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