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writes:Well for the first time, i don't have a girlfriend or any lover, but am trying to have, but it seems like a war between me and the girls i am meeting. This is where the story starts,there was a university in my country, i opened internet cafe there. since i opened the office. I want to have a serious and true relationship with a decent girl in that school, not someone who is after my money. All the girls that came to my office are perverts. am not even having a feeling for them, because some are perverts, some of them need money and while some of them are into prostitution. I don't want that kind of people in my life. There was the one I met last time. I thought she was a good girl,not knowing she was one of the people i mentioned now.she came to my office to do project. she gave me something to type for her and told me the time she was coming to take it. When she came to take the project. I develop interest in her. I asked her everything and she responded well. At last, I asked her if she have facebook account so I can add her there. Do you know what this girl said? "If you add me on facebook, that means I will be coming to your office to do something free of charge" I got mad in my heart and use smile to wave everything out. I didn't add her again, because of what she just vomit. Hmmm, after some minutes, I told her the total of the money for her project. She wanted me to remove money from it and I said no and pretend as if am not the owner of the office and replied:do you want me to loose my job? She said no am lying to her that am the owner of the office. Am not even remove anything from that money. I finally asked her number and she refused to give me. I guess maybe I didn't remove money from the project, that is why she refused. I forgot everything and sent her to hell. Second person came to my office last time to charge her phone. I told her charging of phones are not allowed in my office and She begged me to charge her phone for her and it was her first time of coming to my office. I agreed with her and charge her phone for her. When she came to collect the phone, I begin to have feeling for her by asking her question and she responded well, but we didn't discuss everything like background etc. I finally asked her mobile number and she gave it to me. I saved the number and she saved mine. After some days, I called her to come again, so we can discuss. she said no problem, she would come. After that day, i did not see her. I called her next time and she told me that she travel, maybe when she come back. she came back and she didn't call me, but later came to my office. I wanted to talk to her, but she told me that she was coming now and also in a haste maybe next time. Hmm I agreed with her and discharge her that day. But when i think of her, i begin to have feeling more and more. I called her on phone to tell me when she's coming. she replied on phone that she traveled again. I disconnected the call and delete her mobile number. I feel maybe she don't want to see me or discuss anything with me. About three to four days, I was in my office, she came to do photocopy next to my office. She came and greet me. The way she did that evening. She told me that she was busy with her study that's why she not come. By that time, i have deleted her mobile number. I don't want her to know that and i ask her to give me her phone. she gave me the phone. I send a free sms with her phone to my mobile phone in order to get her number back. She don't know what i did. I gave her phone back she asked me to book another day and I told her the day i want, but she don't have chance in those days. she told me Sunday is ok for her, if i can open my office on Sunday.i replied to her that i will open the office on Sunday. Now she will come on Sunday to discuss with me. This girl was the girl i have feeling among other girls.Now my question is if she come. Should i go straight to my point or just have her as a friend, before anything love.........
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reader, Dodds  +, writes (22 July 2011):
 Hey ive gone through the exact same situation as you..even went as far as deleting her number(a couple of days ago) Id suggest you dont share your feelings this early as it may scare her off. Just take it easy and focus on having fun together n spending quality time togetherSome girls behave in some of those ways you mentioned to get a reaction out of you. Play it cool and if she keeps making excuses and canceling get togethers,be less available and focus on your life as you deserve better
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