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writes:I have had a relationship with a guy who i think is my soul mate.The kids got on well and this lasted 9 months.He was going through divorce after 26 years of marriage and I was separated 3 years but needed to do my divorce.He told me he could't be with me whilst my divorce was going through as he had so much trauma with his.I am now doing my divorce meanwhile he has been seeing someone else.We have kept friends and he has always been asking me about how my divorce is going.He was very emotional to me the other night and we texted for 3 hours He told me he missed me and arranged to meet me next day, but I couldnt do it because i had my daughter,so he suggested one lunch time the folllowing week.I said how sorry I was that I couldnt meet him and he replied, probably best we didnt ,as we probably would have ended up doing something silly. Since then I have made suggestions to meet but he keeps saying no.I did get drunk one night on girls night out and texted him til early hours about how I only wanted him, and t=he told me to stop texting.He is still talking to me , but have I blown it, he is all I want.I want him back so much and he knows it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI can't forget him.I do feel that the remark of doing something silly ,was to make himself feel better and not feel rejected.I feel I lost my chance,but I will keep pursuing it as I will be more hurt letting him go than if i keep trying.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2011): He is seeing somebody else. He text you for 3 hours cos he was after sex, not emotional (thats a new way of putting it though!!)Hence the 'doing something silly' comment - ie sex and regretting it.He's still keeping you on the back burner just in case though as he knows you would see him if he wanted.Don't beat yourself up over this man, you had something and now its over. Forget him. Hes just out of a 26yr marriage and probably wants to spread his wings.I hope you meet somebody who will stick it out and make you happy - and you will - get on with your life and dont respond to his texts OR drunk text him!!!Good luck x
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