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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I've been interested in a certain guy for a year now, and I have no idea how to handle my situation or figure him out. It's summer vacation now, so I have time to organise myself for when I get back. We talk frequently, and we've been flirting for the entire year I've known him. First time I met him, he would stare (literally, for ages) and people started to notice. Later, I developed feelings for him and the flirting increased. There's no doubt in my mind that there's sexual attraction from both corners of the ring, as it were, because of the way he looks me up and down and the look that crosses his eyes when we see each other. The issue is, he is so hard for me to read and flirts with other girls when I'm around, so I have no idea where he's coming from. People constantly say we should go out, and I've asked a friend to ask if he would ever go out with me. Apparantly, he said no and told her not to set us up. Apparently he was also smiling as he said this. After that, though, the flirting just went through the damn roof (play-fighting, touching, lots of eye-contact ect.) Although, sometimes I catch him looking at my chest rather than my face, but that's normal...right? I've also had a good look at his body language, and it seems there's some kind of attraction. But he said no, so what the hell do I do?! D,:
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2011): Thanks for the replies. I heard his friends talking, and apparently he wants a girlfriend, so I guess I can rule that out. I've been contemplating confronting him and I think I might do so later on, and if that fails I'll just have to suck it up. Thanks for all the advice.
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reader, Tyedyedturtle +, writes (22 July 2011):
 Teenage boys are fickle. Usually, if a guy is super interested, he will have made a move by now. Perhaps you should make a move or confront him. If he rejects you, he is just what I said: a flirtatious, fickle boy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2011): Ok, first off don't send your friend to ask, most guys (especially at your age) panic and lie (I have and so have a lot or guys I know), they don't like involving a load of people. It sounds like he likes you, be patient and show him (subtlty) that you are attracted to him. Hope this helped, good luck!
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (22 July 2011):
 It doesn't look like he wants to date anyone. He's more into just flirting and if this has been going on for a year, then it's likely that he won't change his mind. Since he won't date you, just try to move on and maybe him seeing you interested in another person will get him thinking. But don't move on just for that reason. Do it because this guy has no intentions of going further with you. Hope I helped.
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