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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend seems completely bored and distracted when I'm in his presence or on the phone with him.He rarely initiates conversation, sits silently at dinner, is easily annoyed by me, avoids me when I get upset with him, doesn't ask me much, doesn't show sexual interest anymore, avoids talking about our future or making plans, sits on his phone checking his online social networks when were out together. No longer takes pride in his appearance when we go out for nice dinners. But when he's around his friends he comes alive, laughing, chatting non stop, having a great time etc. We've been together 2 yrs and part of our relationship has been long distance, things havent been smooth sailing either, we fight alot, and i know it really affects him. we're apart right now and try to see each other once a month. But when we do he's not very excited to see me and not eager to do much with me and spends most of his time online when we have little time to spend together. Has our relationship run it's course.? I love him but I don't want to waste my time with someone that has checked out of our relationship. I've tried talking-to him and getting him to open up but he just gets annoyed and avoids me. Not sure how to deal with his passive aggressive behavior anymore. Sometimes I feel like he's over us and just doesn't know how to tell me. Vie tried taking to him
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2011): Sounds like he doesn't want to be with you anymore, but doesn't have the balls to say it or he can't come up with a valid excuse for himself. Sometimes guys act like jerks hoping the woman will dump him so he doesn't have to do the work or deal with the guilt. Save him the agony, save yourself the agony...
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