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writes:Hello, I'm a 20 year old girl in love with a 16 yrs older man, who actually has a family (he is not married, but he has been in a relationship for about 6 yrs, and also has a little son). If he would be single, I didn't care about the age difference. We met during a journey, at the first time I didn't really like him, but after a few days I noticed sometimes he was watching me and I really thinked he liked me a lot, but he didn't want to get closer for a reason (then I didn't know he had a family). I tried to smile at him, he smiled back, and this kind of flirt thing went on and on until our travel ended. Everytime I saw him I felt like flying, however, he's not my cup of tea, but I found him attractive. I wanna know him, I have written a small message, but nothing serious. You have to know, I'm not a gold digger or slut who destroys other's families, but I'm going crazy for him...I have to forget him. And it hurts so bad.Thank you for answering me.All my bests,
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (28 April 2011):
 First of all, good for you for knowing that you have to forget about him. I know it's not easy, but it's good and healthy!
One way to help forget about him is to wonder how his girlfriend and child would feel if he betrayed them.
Another way would be to remind yourself that if he can cheat on a long term girlfriend with a child, he would most certainly do it to you too.
If a relationship can't be built on trust, then how can it last? Starting a relationship by destroying another and cheating destroys the trust right from the start.
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