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*mackerdoodle17
writes:So last year this new guy came in our grade. (let's call him guy #1) I got to know him a little better and then he asked me out. I said no because I thought I'd be better if we stayed friends. Well, he just kept liking me for a while. Even this year he has. He kept asking me out and I say, "look, can we just be friends?" so this year We are in the same classes in school. We kept talking and suddenly I went through a depression (different story). Later, I got my first boyfriend that I've had in a year. (Let's call him guy #2) He makes me so happy, but there were things I heard about him. Like he's a jerk and all he wants is sex from me. That's what his ex girlfriends say.... So anyway one night he texts me saying he's afraid that he might like someone else while we are dating. I ask him if he does like her. He said no. But then he said, "i'll make a decision tonight." And by this time I'm furious! I can't explain how mad I am. If he likes me then he shouldn't be liking another girl! Meanwhile, guy #2 is still thinking about it, I talk to guy #1 more. And more. He tells me he has a girlfriend. For some reason, I got mad. Like jealous mad. But I'm pretty sure they broke up by now. So, basically right now I'm a little confused. Should i stick with guy #2 who's my boyfriend? Or should I go with guy #1 who I think I may like, but still not sure.... HELP?
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (28 April 2011):
 Both of them are no good, sister! You are choosing between two completely lame choices. Guy #1 has a wandering eye - though you can't completely believe an ex-girlfriend, she might not be lying if he's already getting all flirty and whatnot with this girl he's making a "decision" about. Don't let him woo you into feeling like you need to prove that you're better than the other girl either - then he'll end up with you and her competing over him while he gets two girls at his beck and call. Not cool.
The other guy, well he's got a girlfriend. If he's single, well - you can see where that goes... but if he's taken - keep your paws off and clean of the potential drama!
I say be single for awhile and keep your options open.
Good luck, sweet!!!
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reader, StuffiesQueen  +, writes (28 April 2011):
 I Kind of Went Through The Same Situation.I Think You Should Break Up With Guy #2 because , If He Really Loved You he Wouldn't Like Anybody Else. And he was Just Being a Jerk When He Said He'll Decide.Try Giving a Try To Guy #1 , Since He likes You and You Like himIt Might be the Best Relationship You've ever HadBut then again , If All Fails , Love's still There (:Hope I Helped. 3 (:
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