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writes:i am in a committed ldr relationship since 1 year and 9 months.recently my bf has gone for a trip with his guy friends.he was telling me that he and his friends were having a nice time on sea beach.but after sometime there was a huge wave due to which my bf's pant slided down and he was left with a small underwear.his friends started laughing and told to pose for a pic.my bf posed for the pic.but i am feeling bad.isnt it bad?my second problem is that my bf and his guy friends stay at one room in a hotel.one of his friends say rohan changed underwear in front of my bf and others friends.not only this,while changing, my bf's frnd rohan was fully nude and another frnd took his naked video!after that rohan was showing his pe**s videos to my bf!my bf said to me that he turned away and didnt watch.but now m frustated and badly hurt.i dont know how to react?should i break frndshp with my bf friends?what to do?how should i react?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2011): guys will do what guys will do and theres nothing you can do to stop it. he saw it. thats all. its not like they actually did stuff.......
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2011): But I don't understand how your boyfriend seeing his friends naked has anything to do with how committed he is to you? I'm assuming your boyfriend isn't bisexual and none of his friends are gay so I don't see how you can see this as anyway inappropriate. Boys will be boys, and they never really grow up with regards to finding things like nudity funny. I agree that you need to relax about this as there's really no issue here, but I'm wondering whether maybe there's some cultural difference here which makes it an issue for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2011): If your boyfriend still had on some smaller underwear when he posed for the picture then theres no real harm done, they were just being silly and having some fun because your boyfriend probably looked very funny when his swimming shorts fell down. Everyone is allowed a moment of fun!
As for one of the friends filming Rohan while he was nude. That was rather a strange thing to want to do but if Rohan didnt mind, then it shouldnt really be your business, so dont worry about it. Rohan showing film of his genitals to your boyfriend is weird and not very nice of him. Some people can be quite offensive im afraid. You cant tell your boyfriend not to be friends with them. But if their behaviour has offended you a great deal and you dont want to be friends with them anymore, that is your choice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionoh my bf's frnds are showing naked videos of theirs to my bf and i should relax?my bf loves me a lot and he is COMMITTED,so i guess its not good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2011): You need to relax!! Honestly boys will be boys and will do stupid shit, if you can't deal with that, good luck finding somebody.
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reader, loveonce +, writes (28 April 2011):
 You should tell them either through bf or yourself that,you do not like their these type of cheap fun stuff..so either they remain serious when in front f you or do not talk to you!!
You should talk to your bf first,in my opinion,to make them understand,where fun ends and vulgarity starts.
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