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Should I try a relationship with my male best friend?

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Question - (28 April 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 30-35, *lwayznd4eva116 writes:

So I just recently stopped talking to this boy that I've been talking to since September. I fell hard for this boy but the problem with him was that he had a kid and a baby mother that I think he still loves. Regardless, I told myself that no matter how he feels about her now, she's always going to be in his life, and I'm always going to come after his baby mother and son, so I had to end it. I'm hurting right now but I know it's the best decision. MY problem, however, has to do with my best friend. He's been there for every problem I been through with the boy with the baby. I talk to him about everything and at first I thought I could see him as a potential boyfriend. Last night he sort of told me he has more then just "friend" feelings towards me and he wanted me to open up and tell him how I feel about him. The thing is, I kind of get jealous when he chills with other girls or goes out with other girls. I even told him he couldn't have sex with any other girls. BUT I dont exactly know how I feel about him. Could I really like this boy as more then just a friend? I really don't want to lose our friendship we have but at the same time, I'll never know until I try, right? I dont want to try to have a relationship with him right now, but maybe in the future, would that be a good idea?

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