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writes:This is going to sound really odd but I'll give it a go. As everyone knows its the Royal wedding tomorrow, and being a royalist I am excited/happy to see the ceremony and the wedding dress etc. It will be a lovely day here for many of us in the UK and I am very happy for Prince William and Kate Middleton. Hwoever, I cant help but feel sad as well! I want what they have (not the royal titles etc! lol) I want a man whom I love, I want the big wedding (obviously not as big as theirs) I want to make vows to someone. I want all that and I do not have it! Each time I read anything to do with the wedding, I am happy but also find myself shedding a few tears of self pity , for what I am missing out on. I am 25 now and not getting any younger. i do have a bf but marriage is not on the cards for many reasons. I have been engaged once before but its not happened either. Arrghh so happy about royal wedding but sad about not having a hubbie of my own!
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reader, Abella  +, writes (28 April 2011):
 at least when you do marry you will be able to do your own thing. But imagine having the eyes of the world and the press onto you all the time. Long range lens being 'the worst'
Now are now 25. Don't let this guy clog up your life.
Even if you met a guy tomorrow it would be nice to enjoy 5 years of 'us(you and him)' time together.(married or single). Then that only leaves you 5 years to make your children.
Hang on, you say. That will only get you to
35? Women can have children after 35? Yes they can. But there are Doctors who suggest that there are more prone to problems so the sooner you start
My experience has been that if a guy is serious he will hint at marriage in the first year. Then if he is really really serious he will have proposed to her by the end of the first year. And he will be married to her by the second anniversary.
Yes there are exceptions to that. Of course.
But if he still has not proposed after five years or ten years then he's acting like a live-in FWB. And is too reluctant to committ,
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2011): i think you should speak to your boyfriend about this tell him you clock is ticking and you really want to settle down and call him your husband. I am sure will understand, and pop the question before you know it.But then as you say 'its not on the cards for may reasons', i think you have to wait for your time. Kate is 29 so am sure you will be fine you will get there.Just use Kate's age as your strong waiting point :D I cant wait to see the dress too oh my i love the long trains.I really want my train to be like that someday
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (28 April 2011):
 so if you have a boyfriend that is not marriage material and you want to be married what do you think you need to do?IF your goal is to be married (not be loved or adored) but just have that piece of paper and a ring, then the bf that is not marriage material needs to go and you need to start a search for a hubby.
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