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writes:How do i make my boyfriend's parents like me more...they dont hate me but i want tips.how do i make my parents like my boyfriend when they meet him?? Reply to this Question
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (28 April 2011):
 It's impossible because they are individuals and will develop their own opinion of him. What you can do is show you care for each other, don't hurt each other, and show respect for them and their rules. That goes both ways.
Parents will often be overprotective, so keep that in mind. Show them respect and behave appropriately. That's about all you can do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2011): Be polite around his parents, and don't be shy to talk to them like they are your friends (but always with respect! No rude jokes or biased opinions.). They will probably be more comfortable if they feel you are comfortable with them and not awkward. Ask your boyfriend what he thinks, as he should know them best. Dress nice and modestly. Compliment your boyfriend in front of them.If you help him do better in school (if he is in school), they will also have a good impression of you.Maybe bake something nice for them when you visit. If you see them doing something you might be able to help with, ask if you could help.As for your parents, well, you know them best! Make sure your boyfriend is decently dressed--no hole-y jeans, for example. You could prime them beforehand by telling them the good things about him and avoiding talking about the bad things (I guess you're probably already doing that and are more concerned about the first meeting). It's probably not up to you whether they like him or not though--that's up to his behavior, and your parents' experiences and opinions. For some parents, no guy is ever good enough for their daughter!Good luck! :)
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