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writes:dear cupid,i really didnt get a lot of responses to my question on tuesday. i need some good advive for my girlfriend. she is a good person . we are like sisters. i dont want her to get hurt. the guy she is seeing only goes to her place. he doesnt take her any where yet. he comes from a good family and has a good job. my girlfriend does too and works 2 jobs. she is 42 and he is 27. he doesnt call her. most of the time she texts him first. and he goes to her house. she wants the relationship to grow. she wants him to take her places. should she quit texting him and see if he calls her? his pap is in the hospital right now and he goes to see him after work. he did tell her to call or text her anytime during the week or whenever. she tried that for 1 week and he was busy he said. last time she saw him was sat. nite into sunday. she has not heard from him since. she has not text him since she saw him. she has backed off . should she give him space? is that the right thing to do? she really likes him. please help my g, f. thank you and have a great day!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2011): She can text or call any time she wants during the week? He only goes to her, never takes her anywhere? He's busy with his dad so he can't return calls? He hasn't communicated since the weekend?
He's married. He has a password on his phone, keeps it on silent when "she" is around, and has a fake name for your gf in his directory. When his wife is not around (maybe she travels, maybe she thinks he's busy with work, whatever) then he uses your gf for sex. Being with his dad means he's with his wife.
I know, I do the same things he's doing.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (28 April 2011):
 he is not interested in her for a relationship.she needs to wait for him to find her... meanwhile she should start finding other men to date, and maybe have a relationship with that does not involve sex, so early ondont' get me wrong, I love sex, and I often have sex early in a relationship, but that means i run the risk of being used by a man who only wants sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2011): Sounds like he's got his hands full with his dad in the hospital. He can still call though, and she could encourage him to nicely. Has she asked him to take her places?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2011): This young man is truly not interested in a long term committed relationship with your gf and if that is what your gf is looking for in him she is on the wrong track. If I were her I would move on to someone who is looking for the same she is. Good Lock to you both.
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